Selling a Home
During a Divorce.
If you're divorcing,and the house you own together is sitting between you,you're dealing with two hard things at once,the end of a marriage,and one of the biggest financial decisions you'll ever share. This page is meant to make the second one simpler:what your options are,how the sale works,and what to expect,with no pressure,and no cheerleading.
We're Jeff and Lane Morrell,a Colorado Springs real estate team with 24+ years in real estate,and 2,000+ homes sold,working with eXp Realty. We've sold homes for divorcing couples,and we know the job isn't to take sides. It's to keep the process fair,and predictable,and based on numbers both of you can see.
The Two Paths Most Couples Face
Sell Now and Split the Proceeds
The house gets listed,staged,and sold;the mortgage,and closing costs get paid from the proceeds,and what's left is divided per your agreement. It's a clean break:no shared mortgage,no shared maintenance,no reason for the house to keep connecting you after the divorce is final.
One Keeps the Home,One Gets Bought Out
One spouse keeps the home,and the other receives their share of the equity. That usually involves refinancing the mortgage into one name,and qualifying on one income. It keeps the house in the family,so to speak,but it's only a good idea if the numbers,and the emotions,actually work.
Neither option is right or wrong in the abstract. The answer depends on your finances,your timelines,your children's needs if you have them,and what your attorneys,and the court,determine is fair. Our role is to make either path as clear,and as fair,as it can be,and we're not going to push you toward one or the other.
How the Sale Works When You're Divorcing
Both Sides,Both Attorneys
We work with both spouses,and both attorneys,at every step. Every offer,every decision,and every number gets shared with both sides,and nobody gets an off-the-record deal. It keeps the process fair,and it keeps it from adding more conflict than it has to.
Objective Pricing and Prep
We price the home from the market data,not from either spouse's feelings about it,and we stage it neutrally,so buyers see a home,not a battleground. A price both sides can see is fair is far easier to agree on than one that starts a fight.
Splitting the Proceeds,Plainly
Once the mortgage,closing costs,commissions,and any agreed liens or debts are settled,the remaining equity is divided exactly as your agreement or court order specifies. We show you the expected numbers early,and the title company handles the actual money movement at closing.
Lending and Buyout Realities
If one spouse keeps the home,the mortgage typically needs to be refinanced into that spouse's name,and they have to qualify on their own income,and credit. That timeline matters,and lenders have their own requirements. We walk you through what the buyout actually requires,so nobody agrees to a path that won't close.
A Calmer,More Predictable Path
The less either spouse has to guess about,the smoother the process. Here's how a sale typically moves,when both sides agree on the plan:
Decide on a Direction
With your attorneys,determine whether the home will be sold,or one spouse will keep it. That single decision shapes everything that follows,and nobody should make it without seeingthe numbers first.
Agree on a Listing Plan
Price,prep,marketing,how offers get reviewed,and how decisions get made mid-contract. Getting both sides to agree on the plan up front saves every fight later.
Price Objectively,and Prep Lightly
We set the price off comparable sales,and we handle neutral staging,and repairs,so neither spouse carries the whole burden of getting the house ready.
Review Offers Together,With Counsel
Every offer comes to both spouses,and both attorneys,with our read on the terms. When both sides understand what a given offer actually means,agreement gets easier.
Close and Split Per Your Agreement
The title company pays the mortgage,and costs,and distributes the remaining equity exactly as your agreement specifies. We make sure both spouses see the final accounting,and that the closing table adds no new surprises.
Divorce,and Real Estate Questions,Answered
Can I sell my house during a divorce?
Who gets the house in a divorce?
How much does it cost to sell a house during a divorce?
Should I keep the house or sell it in a divorce?
How do we split the money from selling the house?
Whenever You're Ready,We're Here.
Text us at 719-321-0335 or book a free consultation and we'll help you both see the numbers,then the path,clearly enough to make a decision you can live with.